Life is sooooo precious.
Within a 10 hour period I was reminded twice how fragile life is and how little I can really control.
Last night, I went to roll over in bed and because I hurt my knee at Rebecca Farm a little over a week ago, I wake up in pain every time I move to lie on my stomach. Of course, my stomach is usually my go-to happy place but my knee has caused me to rethink comfortable sleeping positions. As I squirmed in pain and started to reach a different level of consciousness, I became aware of a strange noise outside. I thought, "it's raining and the hay is not covered". Frustrated with those consequences, I gingerly lowered myself out of bed to go to the bathroom. After hobbling to the bathroom like a stiff old woman, I opened the window to see how hard it was raining. The wall of flames not 30 feet away was probably one of the most frightening things I have ever seen. I immediately knew we had only a few precious minutes. I moved fast and woke Sean, Sydney and Taylor up. Sean later told me that he has never heard me use that tone and that alone scared him. Thankfully, there was very little wind and Sean had the sprinklers on and the hose running immediately. I told Taylor and Sydney to get all the animals in the car. I called 911 as I ran to get the barn foreman, Larry, from his house about 200 feet away. Once I had him rustled out of bed (it was 3am), I ran back to my house to get the cars moved with the animals. Sean was doing an amazing job keeping the flames off the house and putting that part of the fire out; Larry went to the other end of the fire which was threatening all the paddocks. I found myself directing the fireman through the barn so that they could get to the different hot spots.
While it was happening I was too busy to think of taking pictures but here are the pictures from the morning after. That fence is less than 25 feet from our porch and you can see how close the fire got to the horse's shelters......inches.
Just a few hours later, as I drove up the driveway after going to morning Mass to express my gratitude to God for keeping my family, my animals, and the farm from harm, I looked out over the pastures and noticed one of my mares had a white sack hanging under her tail. Again I had a rush of adrenaline and knew I had to act quickly in case there was a problem. Obviously, this maiden mare hadn't realized that she was suppose to foal at night in her comfy stall with all the straw! La Coura was having some difficulties, but there were two black legs and an adorable little muzzle showing, so I told myself to be patient. Larry, once again, came to the rescue, showing up just in time to help La Coura with the next set of contractions; once the head and shoulders were out, the rest slid out easily. A Girl! I love my mares and am very happy to have another blessed one by my stallion Virginian Sky (owned with the Fontana Syndicat)!
My adrenaline roller coaster certainly left me exhausted.
I am so thankful for this beautiful foal......and for the safety of my family. Hug your family, kiss your ponies, and say your prayers. We really have no control over what life throws at us.
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Saturday, November 3, 2012
Germany...with Friends and Horses!

is absolutely incredible.
This year was a little tame compared to some years past but still made me fall madly in love with the Trakehner horse all over again!
They awarded the Trakehner Stallion of the year to Connery! This award is highly coveted and prestigious. It often predicts the future world beaters. Gribaldi (Totilas's sire) was the 2008 Trakehner Stallion of the year just before Totilas took the world by storm!
This year was particularly interesting because the German Verband inspection committee went out on a limb and picked the PINK stallion as the Grand Champion! His name, Donauruf. He of course was stunning....but he really did look pink! He is by E.H. Herzruf out of a mare by the Thoroughbred stallion Exobitant xx. It was nice to see the German Verband selecting for horses with some blood! He sold at the auction for 300.000 euro (which is $390,780 US dollars). That is a large chunk of change for a two year old unbroke colt! His owner (pictured here) has had several champion stallions over the years and she has managed to do it with only maintaining a herd of 4 mares! I guess she has figured out how to make money in the breeding business!
I am already starting to plan next year's trip. We will be visiting three stud Farms as well as the Trakehner stallion market in Neumunster. It is a great opportunity to have someone else worry about all the details (rental car, hotels, food), meet new people, and have friends to travel with! If you are interested in joining us on this tour please let me know so I can update you throughout the year on plans for the 2013 Germany trip. For more information about this trip visit: http://www.fourstarfarm.com/trakehner_verband.shtml
and if you would like updates or to register to join us next year please email Natalie
Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Be a Benevolent Dictator
Another whirlwind couple of weeks! The Greg Best clinic was once again an incredible learning experience for all. Greg always gives 110% to all the participants and this time was no different!
After the clinic we had the opportunity to have Greg coach us at the Sonoma Horse Park Jumper show. The picture above is of Jedi in the 1.20 class. Those are 6 ft standards! What a great way to put all we learned in the clinic into practice. It went so well I am moving Jedi up to Advanced this weekend at the Woodside Horse Trials.
Here are some of the Gregisms we tried to make use of!........
When horse is hot, use LESS bit because the horse is more reactionary when hot and too much bit makes the horse more reactionary. With a sensitive horse, more bit increases anxiety. Less bit equals less anxiety.
The mistake people make is trying to bit for ENERGY rather than SENSITIVITY.
Greg told the story of a lethargic horse that had no respect for its rider. So Greg suggested bitting to get respect, which is counter-intuitive for bitting a lazy horse. The rider also stiffed the horse over the jump, instilling respect for the rider. It woke the horse up and got the desired result.
Riders must give an APPROPRIATELY positive ride to the jump. Give horses what they need and never drop below that level (which might be a stiff arm over a jump).
Greg does not like having riders halt during a course because it's too easy on the rider.
Ride the canter, not the jump
Use proportional resistance (vs. give and take), offering resistance proportional to what horse offers.
After the clinic we had the opportunity to have Greg coach us at the Sonoma Horse Park Jumper show. The picture above is of Jedi in the 1.20 class. Those are 6 ft standards! What a great way to put all we learned in the clinic into practice. It went so well I am moving Jedi up to Advanced this weekend at the Woodside Horse Trials.
Here are some of the Gregisms we tried to make use of!........
Warm up-
Even pressure in contact for stretch
Make the
highest point as close to the withers as possible when stretching.
Still hands
(carry whip under thumbs to see if it moves back and forth...seesaw)
lengthen
and shorten in your warm up
Push around
turns with outside aids and leading open inside rein. Practice
counter bend with tight turn and still forward so it will be easier
when jumping
Watch
outside ear in turn to keep from leaning and maintain straightness.
Straight,
Collected, Lead change (if necessary)....after every jump
When horse is hot, use LESS bit because the horse is more reactionary when hot and too much bit makes the horse more reactionary. With a sensitive horse, more bit increases anxiety. Less bit equals less anxiety.
The mistake people make is trying to bit for ENERGY rather than SENSITIVITY.
Greg told the story of a lethargic horse that had no respect for its rider. So Greg suggested bitting to get respect, which is counter-intuitive for bitting a lazy horse. The rider also stiffed the horse over the jump, instilling respect for the rider. It woke the horse up and got the desired result.
Riders must give an APPROPRIATELY positive ride to the jump. Give horses what they need and never drop below that level (which might be a stiff arm over a jump).
Greg does not like having riders halt during a course because it's too easy on the rider.
Ride the canter, not the jump
Use proportional resistance (vs. give and take), offering resistance proportional to what horse offers.
Rider
should either want to land after the jump with the same control as
before the jump OR start
with more and finish with less.
15-20
lbs of contact, if you find yourself without the exact amount ...no
big deal. If you start with 1/2 lb and suddenly have 2 it changes a
lot.
If
horse worries about landing don't realease (overrelease) over fence so there is
less change after.
Practice
walking distances.
Ride
into contact to avoid weak hind end when riding lines.
Riding
with low hands makes smooth and positive ride....also takes away from
riders ability to invert the horse by being left or not following in the air.
Think
about what level of impulsion is needed for height of fence
What
is a sustainable ride? Ex: Don't let horse drift into turn after
fence by the 10th fence, dive and turn!
Riding
is an exercise in mistake management.
If
fussy about lead change pat immediately when he gets it right
Avoid
confrontation
don't
ask too much too quickly
Exercise:
Pole- 60 feet -jump – 60 feet- pole
four
and four
five
and five
strides
after jump should not be less than strides before...challenge yourself to put 4 and then 5
How
far a horse takes off from jump does not correlate with the size of
the fence....but with the size of the stride. They take off a half of
stride before.
Release
does not mean let go off.
Don't
let horse get comfortable with disuniting (cross cantering/ trot
canter gait)
Be
consistently out of control through the whole process relative to what you
feel comfortable with.
Every
horse wants to get crooked in the process of collection.
Don't
circle in the middle of a course (expect more from yourself).
90%
of learning is self discovery.
Be
a benevolent dictator!!!!!!
The next opportunity to clinic with Greg is September 1-3.
Limited spaces available. Auditors welcome! So sign up early!!!
Sunday, April 29, 2012
Rolex in our future
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Natalie and Jedi in 2012 |
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Natalie and Aladdin in 2001 |
Oh my, has life been CRAZY lately. I definitely have been testing my ability to juggle. My kids, the shows, two farms, planning an inspection, a Greg Best clinic, starting a couple young ones, a Pony Club Rally, buying and selling horses for clients, dealing with my injured back.......my goodness. I need to take a breath.
Thankfully my horses give me strength! Jedi has been the source of the twinkle in my eye. He has been reminding me what it was like (once upon a time) to have a special horse (sniffle) that feels like you could light the world on fire! A horse that makes you dream of the Olympics, a red coat, and possibly a Rolex watch! Jedi easily skipped around the CIC** at Galway for a fourth place finish and then the CCI** at Twin Rivers for fifth would have been second if it weren't for one very expensive rail down in show jumping. I am so glad Greg will be here in two weeks to put the polish back on my show jumping!
Watching the four star at Rolex on my computer this weekend was even more exciting this year knowing that I have a horse that should be ready to meet that challenge in 2013. Both Allison Springer and William Fox Pitt are inspirational and I have enjoyed how technology took me to Lexington for an exciting three days of competition.
Thanks to all of my team who have been so supportive and helpful in these last couple of crazy months! Linda, Katie, Susan, Marjorie, Anya, Rodney, Anja, and my wonderful kids Tyler and Sydney.
Monday, March 19, 2012
Starting young horses
Starting our young bright stars to be!

We have really enjoyed the young ones lately....we have been blessed with talented and extremely trainable projects so far this year.
This is our approach:
I always make sure their teeth are checked, floated and ready for a bit. I also want their feet to be in good shape before they start working.
We spend the first week handling them...a lot! At least 20 minutes of grooming everyday. We use the hose, clippers, curry, wet towel, fly spry (or anything out of a spray bottle)...and make them stand in the cross ties patiently. I will put a saddle pad on and eventually a surcingle and take them out for a walk and some grazing. We spend some time getting to know the wash rack and the arena.
Next I channel my inner horse whisperer and we play "rope halter with words". I make sure they understand whoa and moving away, backing up, and coming forward to me. We walk and when I stop they stop. I teach them to go in a small circle (prep work for proper lunging). It is your typical natural horsemanship stuff. This step usually only takes 2 or 3 days. (We go back to it whenever we need to though!)
Now we start with the lunging. This step is very important and we want it to go well from the start (so I leave my phone in the barn). I tack them up with a pad and surcingle and the lunging cavasson (no bit or bridle yet). If everything goes well to the left at the walk and trot we switch directions (often times it is a whole new task going the other way!) If this day is uneventful I am ecstatic! I always try to introduce something and give it a few days to sink in before I up the ante with a new challenge.
Now we will add a bridle! We still wear the lunging cavesson though and the lunge line is not attached to the bit. After a week with our new fancy big boy/girl bridle on it is time to add the sliding reins (not side reins...I have very little use for those). Still the lunge line remains attached to the lunging cavesson rings.
By now we have the words... walk, trot and canter down. We have also built up enough strength to lunge 20 minutes each way with about 10 minutes of that at the trot, 5 at the canter and 5 at the walk. We have added a saddle and at the end of the lunging time I will hunt down one of working students to practice their lead line etiquette. I am always amazed how uneventful that first time up in the saddle usually is (at least the way we do it!)
Now we add a little variety....we introduce long lining for steering and on another day we pony them off of one of my other babysitter types to introduce trotting over poles, trail riding, ditches, banks, water. We incorporate small jumping obstacles right from the beginning. Once the youngster ponys well and is attached to the babysitter, I put a brave soul on the youngster while I ride the pony horse. We do this for a few days and then we switch horses and cut the pony rope! At first I am happy if they walk around the ring alone. On the second day I usually find that trotting is fine too.
Within another week we usually are walk, trot and cantering around the ring with a fair amount of steering and control. It seems like the whole thing takes a long time but this process usually goes quickly if you are consistent.
Just look at that fancy horse in the picture......not bad for 8 weeks! The owners are planning to sell her. Hopefully we will have a chance to get a few blue ribbons first!
Monday, March 12, 2012
Jedi getting fit

One of the things I have found to really step up his fitness without hard mileage is the Hydro Horse at Circle Oak Equine in Petaluma. I can go once a week and I am amazed the difference it really makes! He seems to have an increased range of motion and it builds both his strength and his cardio! Doing that along with our gallops at the beach and some hill work and Jedi feels amazing! Getting ready for that CIC** at the end of the month. So if we don't quite make the Olympic three day team he will be primed for the swim team! Watch out Michael Phelps!
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